Choices They have listened to our songs, preaching and loud prayers, so we older ones have done our job. We play table tennis and board games with them, so we youth leaders have done our job. We let them play around and do their own thing, but they do not beg us to be taught about God, so it is their fault. I am not fine and will be doing whatever it takes to stem the flow, even if it offends some of the old timers.